Don't deny denial, I didn't thank goodness, everyone will try and convince you to accept it, because they have in a way been brainwashed to by Neurologists, MS nurses, Doctors, even on these boards, which have by some others and I don't blame them, a kind of chat room. Where is the Societies alternative research, they raise millions and feed those in medical science, utter madness, people are given drugs unnecessarily, which may even interact with each other and cause yet another fictitious symptom, When is it going to end, when are they going to get it, they have spent years making it up, and there is NOT one piece of conclusive proof. because it does NOT exist
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Denial
09 Nov 2013 at 7:08PM
I want to get on with my life as best I can but everyone
around me has accepted whats wrong with me and are all being so
supportive but I just cant seem to accept it. I have this idea that i'll
wake up and be fine or my docs will say we got it wrong take this pill
and u'll be back to how you used to be. I was excited about getting my
wheelchair as i've been house bound for months but now its here I just
can't bring myself to use it, its like if I udr it then its all real ! I
wanna pull myself together but I really don't know how ?? Any advice
(or a wake up slap lol) would be so appreciated
Krissy :-) xx
Krissy :-) xx
Be thankful that you're still here. I know it sounds silly,
but everything could be much worse. I always try and think of something
that I definitely wouldn't want and it reminds me to be thankful for
what I do have. You can still get out and about. You're still here to be
with family and you've still got a life to live. Some days are gonna be
harder than others. Some days you'll feel great, others you won't. But
just be glad that the health you've got isn't something completely
terminal.
Lots of hugs and wishes your way,
Tsuki xxx
Lots of hugs and wishes your way,
Tsuki xxx
09 Nov 2013 at 9:00PM
Thank you so much tsuki your so right ! I have two small boys
and I get to play and laugh with them everyday, for that I am eternally
thankful and thats what I will focus on :-))
Krissy xx
Krissy xx
It's ok. Sometimes we need someone that doesn't know us to
point out what is right with our lives. Just glad you have something to
focus on like 2 boys. I have yet to get diagnosed and yet to even start
my own family yet. But days for both will come soon :)
Take care Tsuki xxx
Take care Tsuki xxx
Hi krissy,
It takes time to get your head round a dx. Take each day as it comes and enjoy the little things that make you happy. It's great that you have a strong support team around you, take any help that is offered.
I'm glad you got a wheelchair, it will give you back your freedom, albiet a different sort of freedom, but it will get you out and about again. I got a mobility scooter recently, I used it when I needed it but I'm at the end of a relapse and my legs are behaving themselves once again.
Wishing you well.
Jen xx
It takes time to get your head round a dx. Take each day as it comes and enjoy the little things that make you happy. It's great that you have a strong support team around you, take any help that is offered.
I'm glad you got a wheelchair, it will give you back your freedom, albiet a different sort of freedom, but it will get you out and about again. I got a mobility scooter recently, I used it when I needed it but I'm at the end of a relapse and my legs are behaving themselves once again.
Wishing you well.
Jen xx
09 Nov 2013 at 10:00PM
Hello Krissy. I've only just recently been diagnosed
(august). I too have very good support which is of course helpful.
What your going through now Krissy is a process of grieving.....it may
even help you to have a bit of a read round that subject. It will help
you to understand that there is a process that all people who grieve go
through and not always in the order thats written in books. Part of
that process is feeling anger,fear,loss, acceptance etc. Just be kind
to yourself Krissy, take it one day at a time. Your MS is unique to
you, you'll get there in your own good time. Lots of hugs, Noreen 
09 Nov 2013 at 10:17PM
Hi Jen and Noreen,
Yea the wheelchair is good but I can only go out occassionally as we have a baby (well 15 month old) thats still in a pram and my husband cares for us single handed, plus our other children (although he is going to get help for a cpl hrs a week soon) and we have no babysitters and as my hands are really bad I cant wheel myself but its better than never getting out. Noreen u hit the nail on the head ! I have been trying to explain to my husband how I feel and yea it is like im greiving the life I used to have, the mom my boys should have etc and then I feel selfish for feeling like that lol im all over the place, my husband suggested asking for a counsellor so I will give it a go. Thank you so much for your time it helps just to know someone cares enough to take time out of their day to give me advice
Hugs Krissy xxx
Yea the wheelchair is good but I can only go out occassionally as we have a baby (well 15 month old) thats still in a pram and my husband cares for us single handed, plus our other children (although he is going to get help for a cpl hrs a week soon) and we have no babysitters and as my hands are really bad I cant wheel myself but its better than never getting out. Noreen u hit the nail on the head ! I have been trying to explain to my husband how I feel and yea it is like im greiving the life I used to have, the mom my boys should have etc and then I feel selfish for feeling like that lol im all over the place, my husband suggested asking for a counsellor so I will give it a go. Thank you so much for your time it helps just to know someone cares enough to take time out of their day to give me advice
Hugs Krissy xxx
09 Nov 2013 at 10:20PM
Tsuki,
Im sure u'll get your answers eventually and I wish you luck on starting a family in the future
Krissy xx
Im sure u'll get your answers eventually and I wish you luck on starting a family in the future
Krissy xx
09 Nov 2013 at 10:30PM
Your more than welcome Krissy. The couselling is an
excellent idea....maybe your husband could go with you if only to the
first. All the best, Noreen
Thanks Krissy. I hope I get answers soon too. Starting to
develop more and more symptoms the longer my wait has gone for my first
neuro appointment. Still a long road ahead, but at least I'm on it.
Really great idea with the counselling. I've been thinking about going recently, although I've got really good support with my partner, family and my GP so I'm waiting a little bit longer. Maybe do a family one as well and that can help with the whole family. Unfortunately these things affect everyone around, a lot of things do, but nothing can stop a family who care and love much for one another.
Tsuki xxx
Really great idea with the counselling. I've been thinking about going recently, although I've got really good support with my partner, family and my GP so I'm waiting a little bit longer. Maybe do a family one as well and that can help with the whole family. Unfortunately these things affect everyone around, a lot of things do, but nothing can stop a family who care and love much for one another.
Tsuki xxx
10 Nov 2013 at 7:58PM
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Hello Tsuki. Are you handling things ok? Its a lot to cope
with isn't it. I have a lot of support also but sometimes its hard to
put into words how one is really feeling to the people that are
closest. Take care,
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